Do you find yourself judging?

I have been silent lately but this doesn’t men that I haven’t been observing. My soul is open and aware so I do watch and listen how the world goes before my eyes and ears. So I’ve noticed that the ego is trying to tell us that we are not enough, and we don’s serve as we were supposed to. The ego is also trying to drain us back to sleep, maybe through old habits or through some sort of procrastination we tend to slip back into, the comfort zone that is.

So how could we overcome this? How is it possible to set goals or go to a new path and keep the intent and actions there? How much do we demand that we should proceed in certain amount of time? Do we see that this self talk about sluggish ways or lack of motivation is actually ego talking us down. It is an actually a question of self-worth and self knowing we are learning now. We learn from these experiences and these people that we interact now to set boundaries. Those who talk us down whether that be internal self talk or someone else telling us what is correct or acceptable way to live this life are merely reflections to what we should do and where to focus.

The problem is not outside of you. The problem is not other people but your inner ways of thinking or doing. Yes they might “attack” to your behavior or posts or lack of action, but that is not the actual problem. The actual problem is that you are not willing to look inside of yourself and see the things that needs to be changed in order for your growth. The shift/ ascension is not about others but us individuals putting the oxygen mask on ourselves first and after that helping others if they ask our assistance. The free choice is what is at stake here. The manipulation, the control and the domination are all behaviors that we should now be able to drop in order to ascend further. These old ways come about in everyday life multiple times and in multiple ways so focus your intention in this moment and this one task at the time in order to be able to steer your way as peacefully, kindly and gracefully as possible. Remember that all of us are having some sort of discomfort. No one is secured or saved from this.

Remind yourself that your intuition tells you/prioritizes what is necessary now. So if it means that you have to skip or leave something undone that is exactly right for you. Take time to that what is important. It might mean that you focus on your well-being (more sleep, exercise, tending your home environment etc.) or you focus on serving others by acting and starting new projects, doing simple small actions of love and kindness. The thing is that no act is too small no intention is too grand so drop your self judgment and  drop judgment to others. YOU ARE ENOUGH! Healing mentally, physically, spiritually is a grand task. You should always remember that. Those of us who have multiple “illnesses” healing to do are under such enormous amount of need of energy that those who are not under our skin cannot possibly have no idea how much is going on. Do not judge, do not think that someone is lacking motivation or is sluggish. You have no idea.

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We have the power to choose

Dark forces are taking all their skills into full action. I have noticed that they are trying to trigger us to arguments, insecurity, hesitation. They come from all places, even in our own healing groups (light workers under mind control) or our neighbors, our media, our own mind. The truth is that they act open so if we stay high ground and mindful they cannot pass or interfere unless we allow them to do so.

Our transformation in such state that it is easy to go into hesitation mode. We might find all the reasons to avoid new or become apologetic. We become child like and small or that is what the dark forces want us to believe. This is not so. We have evolved past small/immature phase. This is also the reason why we should trust and listen to our inner guidance and knowing and that gut feeling more than ever. If possible try not to ask so much even from your peers but yourself, what is it that I need to do now. Go it step by step. There is no wrong or right only learning. And what we truly need right now is to learn.

What I have also noticed is that some people are telling us how we should do our light work. Do not listen to them, please! There are multiple ways and your purpose is unique so they don’t know the ways that Universe/God is showing us. And what is also very important is finally understand that we can’t help or cure anyone else unless we have not healed ourself first. It is the talents and knowledge we should use as tools. Our unique tool kit has a precise purpose and it takes some time to learn and take those talents into control/mastery.

Go with confidence into situations and listen up carefully. Use your diplomatic high vibe to lead others into better situation or to a better outcome possible. If you notice that your talents and skills are not enough at this task do not despair but leave gracefully without victim attitude or resentful argument. Let those who will be left in the situation learn what they need to learn. Our judgment or besserwisser teaching is not required. Just remind yourself that this is for their highest good and know also what is to your highest good.

I wish you all a good day/night. Let there be light upon humanity so that we would not walk astray. Much love and gratitude from here to you!

Steer away

WHAT? Is’t it so that we are all in this together and no one is supposed to be left behind? Yes, that is exactly so, but some people are not ready yet. These people are “fear mongers”, stagnant and negative. They find lack, problems big issues wherever they go. These people fuel from negativity (sometimes visible sometimes unseen fear). Then come these wise words that we are supposed to serve, help and guide and be an example for them. That we should stay in contact to be their teachers, coaches and guides but the very truth is that no one can save an other. One must work from within and accept the change that will appear into their life from the changed attitude and point of view.

Yes we, the light-workers can be the light/ the guidance and coaches to them but we are not allowed to force anyone to change the course unless they are willing to. It seems that we now forget this principle. So what should we do then? How could we help them? The harsh truth is to leave them behind. Leave them all “alone”, not giving them support to monger, the ear to be heard. This might sound the hardest truth ever said but it is so that once the “power” is taken out or the power of influence is taken out of them, they are not able to function the ways they used to. They are “forced” to check themselves and their behaviors and ways of interaction. If they still choose to stay in fearful mindset then that is their free will. They might find suffering and more negative situations to follow, even illness.

So light-worker do you find it helpful to fuel for this kind of behavior or do you find it more helpful to steer yourself away from them in order to have and stay in higher vibration? It is your free will. Be mindful. This is exactly what keeps us there where we attract those energy vampires. They know how to get us. It is the willingness to help in all cost and work overtime and accept the less than what we deserve (money, abundance, happiness). Don’t you see that when you allow these negative people come into your life you are telling to you that you are not worthy and you don’t really love yourself, that it is OK if your are treated poorly. Put an end to this, please.

When you steer away, and set boundaries, you are not telling them that they are less deserving, or you don’t care about them, or love them as your brothers and sisters, but you are being an example of how you love yourself and that which is healthy self-love, not ego based (lack, victim hood, need of control). Be a teacher and a coach who loves them self first.

If we all could choose not to support, unwanted behavior and fear based news, we would rewire the humanity sooner than you would think. Reconditioning has been a tool for humanity for so long. The brain has its ways to rewire to help us change the behavior that needs to be shut down. We as fellow human beings are the mirrors to help in that process. This is all so very simple, but we as light-workers are causing harm, by supporting (nurturing behavior is only one perspective) these people and as long as we keep supporting them they have no need to change. The less fear gets support the less it has space to work its ways around us.

So be authentic. Use your power to help them (steer away) instead of fueling their old ways and habits (trying to coach them when not for obvious reasons they have no need to change). You need to be stronger than what the darkness/negativity is so be the light you need to be but do not waste time on those that don’t want or ask to be helped.

Dialog with the nearest and dearest

The conflicts and issues with the near and dear ones seem to arise. We take peaceful approach and we are trying to come to their level of understanding. We are trying to visualize the picture from both sides and then fill in the missing information that we need to make the shift to the next level. The difficulty within this communication is the resistance from both sides and also the knowledge of thinking that both are students and teachers. So we need to approach the situation with grace, not taking the approach of “know it all” but more like genuine dialog where you ask clarifying questions and tell your perspective with honoring ones right to reject the given info. So the dialog comes to a flow of emotions at the same time keeping the frustration out of the picture.

This is the picture given so often when we come into dialog with children or elders, those that are not from the same age group. The hardest of them all restrictions within dialogs and changing the paradigms and values within society or within self. Once we get past this issue, we will be better communicators, teachers, healers and leaders. So now we come to a point to questions what is worth and what is not of our intention, time and effort.  The knowing when the discussion is fruitful and when it is not. We can stay in the level of insisting that our perception is right and new knowledge so therefore it serves the humanity better or we can simply give the seeds of our perception and therefore bring hope and awakening to them. We might also find some useful knowledge from the other perspective, the elders might have gone through these situation and they can explain how not to act if certain outcome is not desired. On the other hand young ones can have clear review and courage to test different approach, but this is why we need the knowledge of the elders. By knowing the past, we are able to reduce the potential of possibilities we might need to try. The benefit goes both ways. The elders might then realize how this time and this situation needs new tools and new kind of approach. The judgment goes down little by little.

There might be some jealousy of the fact that someone learned and tough a new and more effective way, but the ones that meet the jealousy and therefore judgment should know that the benefits to all of the humanity are greater than ones emotional reactions. The realization of ones self-worth, and self-love are inevitable, because the work yet still to be done will be easier to those yet to come. I know I am talking self-explanatory here, but I also see that now that some newcomers arrive to this new level we need to repeat and remind from time to time. There are also those that are so filled with info, that their mind and brain gets blocked from these simple truths.

Repetition is the mother of learning is the truth that we hate and love. It is not so much of being able to repeat from the books that, which we have learned but the understanding how to use these new tools and new knowledge time over and over again till they came a new habit, part of our new practice.

I wish this viewpoint gave you something to take with you today and for the rest of your days. Much love from me! Push and push, but know when to stop if things are repeating or they don’t approve in any ways. “Giving up” is not always giving up, but the acknowledgement of the fact that things don’t meet they way that they would be aligned to an acceptable outcome to you. Respect each other enough to give space to them and yourself to grow. Make new habits and teach yourself if there is no other one to teach. Observe yourself and dare to ask from your higher self to lead you to the path that you need for the desired outcome.

Succeed on your own terms and determine  what the success is from your own perspective. Do not fear to add little bit when you reach the goal or the next level. Plan ahead for the next possible goal and outcome, keep on your journey for there is no right or wrong turn.

Powerful people

We get confused about the thing that we should not expect things. This is misleading us to think that we should live in the now moment and just flow. We should learn that by setting boundaries we give signs and expectations to other people. This is just as it should be. We should be strong enough to set boundaries to know what we tolerate.

There will always be people who will do whatever in their power to control and manipulate and if we allow this “mindless”flow within, we allow them to set boundaries and we start to live by their expectations and rules. This world is about power and if you don’t own your own power you will be leaded to what suits someone else. The very reason for you to become “victim” to moan about the injustice.

So in order to have power and healthy boundaries you need to step up and tell the rest of the world about your healthy expectations. It is within that we create the expectations not without or towards someone. Unhealthy expectations towards others are something we should avoid by all cost.

Know yourself and know what makes you happier. Give up on things that weight you down or make you feel less. No matter if it is someone close or a thing. Surrender to knowing that you are perfect and having experiences you need to grow unless you choose to stay stagnant, to settle for something that makes you feel like you are not enough or you should change. Pleasing is giving your power away.

It is natural, when we grow to lean on to peers and to find some set of rules or definitions to help us grow further but we should not cling on to them because by clinging onto we create only new kind of stagnant belief systems and paradigms  that we should avoid in the long run. We should only allow the flow and constant new settings and then let go of them when they no longer serve us. The mindful knowing that some belief or way to act doesn’t serve our growth anymore. This is to understand that moving on can create uncertainty and fear, still we should seek the unknown. We should understand that if we trust enough to our own power and our intuition we will get the teachings and teachers that serve our ascension. We should also understand that letting go or giving up means sometimes what we call losing. Loss is natural process of growth. It is not the loss and lack that we should concentrate but the coming of new that should excite so much that we would not cling onto lack and loss.

It is okay to grieve, that is a process too, but more like process that we allow. We should allow the tidal waves to come and do their work within.

So grow and have your healthy expectations and boundaries. This is how we find people that resonate with us. You push unhealthy relationships out of your space and let healthier new ones to come in. Come from a place of love to yourself! Lots of love from this little soul who writes these messages. Have a blessed day full of pride that you have the power.

Hard to let go hard to choose

How to get over? That is the question. I know we should not get too involved. We should just explore and release. The truth is that I know what my soul plan is. I know what it needs and I am not willing to compromise not even a bit.

I loved and lost already. I have grown thru the pain. I was never easy. I was never interested playing but to observe and “strike”. All these thoughts running in my head. Yet my circumstances are stable or at least so they appear. I am happy to do my work, I am learning to go out and meet new people. I am not making any assumptions based on short meetings or new acquaintances.

So maybe one could say that I am getting on my two feet once again. More sure than ever that what my soul plan is. Sure that it will open the door I need to go thru sooner or later. The work to be done is just let go of the old. The work to know that it is up to me to say this has to go and this can stay.

I am putting my pieces together slightly different now. There is a history I can ignore and there are parts I will carry with me to the new world. The difficulty is that people might try to make me choose to leave the important stuff behind, but this is my decision. I need to make it on my own. I need to love myself enough to set this boundary straight, put my feet on the ground calmly. Be the rock that I need under my feet.

From that piece of land I might go to explore one day and meet that significant other that will allow me to be who I chose to be and accept the scars and the baggage I carry, for there only we are able to start our journey together.