The conflicts and issues with the near and dear ones seem to arise. We take peaceful approach and we are trying to come to their level of understanding. We are trying to visualize the picture from both sides and then fill in the missing information that we need to make the shift to the next level. The difficulty within this communication is the resistance from both sides and also the knowledge of thinking that both are students and teachers. So we need to approach the situation with grace, not taking the approach of “know it all” but more like genuine dialog where you ask clarifying questions and tell your perspective with honoring ones right to reject the given info. So the dialog comes to a flow of emotions at the same time keeping the frustration out of the picture.
This is the picture given so often when we come into dialog with children or elders, those that are not from the same age group. The hardest of them all restrictions within dialogs and changing the paradigms and values within society or within self. Once we get past this issue, we will be better communicators, teachers, healers and leaders. So now we come to a point to questions what is worth and what is not of our intention, time and effort. The knowing when the discussion is fruitful and when it is not. We can stay in the level of insisting that our perception is right and new knowledge so therefore it serves the humanity better or we can simply give the seeds of our perception and therefore bring hope and awakening to them. We might also find some useful knowledge from the other perspective, the elders might have gone through these situation and they can explain how not to act if certain outcome is not desired. On the other hand young ones can have clear review and courage to test different approach, but this is why we need the knowledge of the elders. By knowing the past, we are able to reduce the potential of possibilities we might need to try. The benefit goes both ways. The elders might then realize how this time and this situation needs new tools and new kind of approach. The judgment goes down little by little.
There might be some jealousy of the fact that someone learned and tough a new and more effective way, but the ones that meet the jealousy and therefore judgment should know that the benefits to all of the humanity are greater than ones emotional reactions. The realization of ones self-worth, and self-love are inevitable, because the work yet still to be done will be easier to those yet to come. I know I am talking self-explanatory here, but I also see that now that some newcomers arrive to this new level we need to repeat and remind from time to time. There are also those that are so filled with info, that their mind and brain gets blocked from these simple truths.
Repetition is the mother of learning is the truth that we hate and love. It is not so much of being able to repeat from the books that, which we have learned but the understanding how to use these new tools and new knowledge time over and over again till they came a new habit, part of our new practice.
I wish this viewpoint gave you something to take with you today and for the rest of your days. Much love from me! Push and push, but know when to stop if things are repeating or they don’t approve in any ways. “Giving up” is not always giving up, but the acknowledgement of the fact that things don’t meet they way that they would be aligned to an acceptable outcome to you. Respect each other enough to give space to them and yourself to grow. Make new habits and teach yourself if there is no other one to teach. Observe yourself and dare to ask from your higher self to lead you to the path that you need for the desired outcome.
Succeed on your own terms and determine what the success is from your own perspective. Do not fear to add little bit when you reach the goal or the next level. Plan ahead for the next possible goal and outcome, keep on your journey for there is no right or wrong turn.