Dialog with the nearest and dearest

The conflicts and issues with the near and dear ones seem to arise. We take peaceful approach and we are trying to come to their level of understanding. We are trying to visualize the picture from both sides and then fill in the missing information that we need to make the shift to the next level. The difficulty within this communication is the resistance from both sides and also the knowledge of thinking that both are students and teachers. So we need to approach the situation with grace, not taking the approach of “know it all” but more like genuine dialog where you ask clarifying questions and tell your perspective with honoring ones right to reject the given info. So the dialog comes to a flow of emotions at the same time keeping the frustration out of the picture.

This is the picture given so often when we come into dialog with children or elders, those that are not from the same age group. The hardest of them all restrictions within dialogs and changing the paradigms and values within society or within self. Once we get past this issue, we will be better communicators, teachers, healers and leaders. So now we come to a point to questions what is worth and what is not of our intention, time and effort.  The knowing when the discussion is fruitful and when it is not. We can stay in the level of insisting that our perception is right and new knowledge so therefore it serves the humanity better or we can simply give the seeds of our perception and therefore bring hope and awakening to them. We might also find some useful knowledge from the other perspective, the elders might have gone through these situation and they can explain how not to act if certain outcome is not desired. On the other hand young ones can have clear review and courage to test different approach, but this is why we need the knowledge of the elders. By knowing the past, we are able to reduce the potential of possibilities we might need to try. The benefit goes both ways. The elders might then realize how this time and this situation needs new tools and new kind of approach. The judgment goes down little by little.

There might be some jealousy of the fact that someone learned and tough a new and more effective way, but the ones that meet the jealousy and therefore judgment should know that the benefits to all of the humanity are greater than ones emotional reactions. The realization of ones self-worth, and self-love are inevitable, because the work yet still to be done will be easier to those yet to come. I know I am talking self-explanatory here, but I also see that now that some newcomers arrive to this new level we need to repeat and remind from time to time. There are also those that are so filled with info, that their mind and brain gets blocked from these simple truths.

Repetition is the mother of learning is the truth that we hate and love. It is not so much of being able to repeat from the books that, which we have learned but the understanding how to use these new tools and new knowledge time over and over again till they came a new habit, part of our new practice.

I wish this viewpoint gave you something to take with you today and for the rest of your days. Much love from me! Push and push, but know when to stop if things are repeating or they don’t approve in any ways. “Giving up” is not always giving up, but the acknowledgement of the fact that things don’t meet they way that they would be aligned to an acceptable outcome to you. Respect each other enough to give space to them and yourself to grow. Make new habits and teach yourself if there is no other one to teach. Observe yourself and dare to ask from your higher self to lead you to the path that you need for the desired outcome.

Succeed on your own terms and determine  what the success is from your own perspective. Do not fear to add little bit when you reach the goal or the next level. Plan ahead for the next possible goal and outcome, keep on your journey for there is no right or wrong turn.

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Clearing and cleaning (self work)

I am feeling that many of us needs to do their self work now. WE need to adjust, “learn”/discover new aspects of ourselves and delete the old. One can use old methods to delete and to discover or one can simply go to explore. It is what one feels comfortable enough to do that is perfect for oneself. I would advise to listen to ones intuitive urges very carefully. It might be good idea to explore newly found methods or concepts to fast forward of simply to be more effective, but if one feel exhausted and lacks of energy, then I would advice one to stay in the old and comfortable stages. One really needs to trust their own barrel of energy. Yes you get downloads and energy boosts, but most often they bring you new knowledge or new something so that will only add to old pile. You will become even more exhausted if you don’t know where you are standing so to speak. Do not let outer world and energy uploads put you in a state of sleeping beauty, it is not beneficial to none. Now is the time to really know your boundaries. Take care of yourself in a best possible way.

Those who use energy healing, I would advice to clear and clean their 3rd eye effectively now. When we shift, we need to have space for the new ideas and developing new ways and such. So deleting old habits, beliefs, and emotional burden is crucial. Take tissues near to your work space for the road will get bumpy so to speak. It can bring up the most horrible torture experiences or it can bring up the most wonderful and loving experiences you have ever had. This will bring us back to now moment to be reminded about the SELF LOVE AND FORGIVENESS. Let those events and experiences flow through you and tell them delete after that. The pile goes down. Moan, cry, express it how you can. Do a grieving dance or what ever. Do not get to so deep now that it would be expressed as words. JUST LET GO! I did my work yesterday and it felt good. Some of the events where like one photo in my mind that went to rubbish bin after it was shown to me. I sealed my session with white light and affirmations. The sensation afterwards was loving, peaceful and filled with white light. This integration went to my cell level too so I feel that it changed my overall data and DNA for the better.

Let loving and caring energies surround you for the coming September! Love yourself and be grateful and expand from this space outwards. It is really not that hard. We are all brothers and sisters of love and light.

Do not think that the end is near. Life one day at the time and make it beautiful for yourself and those around you. Give hope for those that are young and in despair. People deserve all the good they have dreamed to humanity. Food, health, homes and love to everyone. Equality between males and females. End to hate crimes. Let it be a loving globe from this day forward.

Understand that knowledge is not always meant to be shared or timing might be off

I received a message yesterday about two people. I then came to question what I should do with this info. Should I share it with them? Was it just for me for my higher understanding? What is important about this and so on. The questions kept on coming to me? It was a whole day bombarding conciseness about how I should act. Finally I decided  to meditate to calm myself and to connect to my intuition. I immediately knew what was the purpose, how was it meant to be shared or not at all. That knowledge that I received relaxed me and calmed me. I was able to leave the message to be info to myself only.

So often we share info/gossip/perspective/haft truth or what ever come to our knowledge without a thought that what is it for that we came to know about something. This is so important that we would stop before our actions, that we would be mindful about things. Mostly it is our old ways to respond or share whatever that we make, damages others and ourselves. Because once you have said or shared something you can not erase it. For human mind it is luring and tempting not to stay put but to be fast forwarded. To leave sometimes things to unravel by themselves (divine timing) would be much more beneficial to everyone. Human mind only controls, wants to speed things up or think that some knowledge makes someone to change, but this is not so. Or maybe that was so in the old ways, but not anymore.

As we have ascended we have come to understand that what appears to be seen as with visual is only parts of this process. The “train” is moving on and there is a next physical already forming already. So if we need to assist someone, if we need to share or push someone to one direction, we will get the intuitive push to do so. There is always sense of peace and knowing that your actions are to benefit all of those concerned. As for my case this was not to be so, so I let the info silently to sink into my own awareness to benefit my peace and calmness about this particular thing.

So I would want to remind all of us to slow our actions and responses once in a while. To understand that train is really moving on even though we might not see what is coming next or why certain things have to happen. It is about letting go, letting things to flow with ease. Let go of control, let go of knowing how things and timeliness should look. Let go of judgment to the process. Just see the outcome that you desire, see the perfect health, see the perfect house, the perfect family situation or the dream job you would love to live. Follow and let things then come to you. They will most often not appear all at once as one solution but more like one stepping stone at the time. Learn to be patient! This is most important in your ascension.

What is this talk about separation?

I noticed this morning that people feel separated from their beloved ones, people are sad and doubtful. I wonder why? I wonder is it more important to serve our purpose and do our work than to cuddle and snuggle and make love every night? I know how important it is to lift the energy up now but isn’t it so that if we give in to sadness, feeling of separation and lack we already give in to lower frequencies? I so wish we would all realize this. There is no separation, but only ego’s want and illusion. It is the lower energies that tries to separate and make us to believe that crap.

It is true that sometimes we need to “separate” to heal ourselves or go thru some storms on our own and our beloved may not know or understand this process, but that is what we do to lift the energy up again. Sure it would mean a world to have an ideal “partner”, who would support us and help us to grow thru our difficulties, but we can’t force anyone. If someone is not capable to support, we should let them be. On the other hand one might not be willing to ask support, it might be because they don’t realize they could get assistance or support or they are too arrogant and self centered. Whatever the reason, the other person is only allowed to help when recognized the need of help or the willingness to give help in some situation. So the lack of communication or silence is really a killer, the reason for the “suffering” of the soul and “separation”.

Sometimes it might be easier to concentrate on partner and lack of his/her attention than on your own issues. We put our own difficult things aside so we can have the victim mentality or moan about the lacks. The truth is that we can find support if we trust the universe to lead us to right person in whatever we are facing. It is not always the ideal partner, who is the best one to support us but maybe a friend of a relative or even someone else.

So the suffering is all about our own perspective and where we put our attention. What we give power to, grows within us. Are we willing to do the work ourselves or are we waiting to be “saved”? We are not chick-lings anymore, we need to find our own power and path. We need to understand that love means more than just the lovemaking or romance. It is not about giving and getting but willingness to give and acceptance to receive.

I wish from the bottom of my heart everyone joyful times and peacefulness. Collective is only as strong as you think you are. The more peaceful and confident you are the more peaceful the whole world will be. Then that means more peaceful path for you to walk and more peaceful people you to meet. So go blessed and peaceful, all is well and on it’s way to better.

Hard to let go hard to choose

How to get over? That is the question. I know we should not get too involved. We should just explore and release. The truth is that I know what my soul plan is. I know what it needs and I am not willing to compromise not even a bit.

I loved and lost already. I have grown thru the pain. I was never easy. I was never interested playing but to observe and “strike”. All these thoughts running in my head. Yet my circumstances are stable or at least so they appear. I am happy to do my work, I am learning to go out and meet new people. I am not making any assumptions based on short meetings or new acquaintances.

So maybe one could say that I am getting on my two feet once again. More sure than ever that what my soul plan is. Sure that it will open the door I need to go thru sooner or later. The work to be done is just let go of the old. The work to know that it is up to me to say this has to go and this can stay.

I am putting my pieces together slightly different now. There is a history I can ignore and there are parts I will carry with me to the new world. The difficulty is that people might try to make me choose to leave the important stuff behind, but this is my decision. I need to make it on my own. I need to love myself enough to set this boundary straight, put my feet on the ground calmly. Be the rock that I need under my feet.

From that piece of land I might go to explore one day and meet that significant other that will allow me to be who I chose to be and accept the scars and the baggage I carry, for there only we are able to start our journey together.