Do you find yourself judging?

I have been silent lately but this doesn’t men that I haven’t been observing. My soul is open and aware so I do watch and listen how the world goes before my eyes and ears. So I’ve noticed that the ego is trying to tell us that we are not enough, and we don’s serve as we were supposed to. The ego is also trying to drain us back to sleep, maybe through old habits or through some sort of procrastination we tend to slip back into, the comfort zone that is.

So how could we overcome this? How is it possible to set goals or go to a new path and keep the intent and actions there? How much do we demand that we should proceed in certain amount of time? Do we see that this self talk about sluggish ways or lack of motivation is actually ego talking us down. It is an actually a question of self-worth and self knowing we are learning now. We learn from these experiences and these people that we interact now to set boundaries. Those who talk us down whether that be internal self talk or someone else telling us what is correct or acceptable way to live this life are merely reflections to what we should do and where to focus.

The problem is not outside of you. The problem is not other people but your inner ways of thinking or doing. Yes they might “attack” to your behavior or posts or lack of action, but that is not the actual problem. The actual problem is that you are not willing to look inside of yourself and see the things that needs to be changed in order for your growth. The shift/ ascension is not about others but us individuals putting the oxygen mask on ourselves first and after that helping others if they ask our assistance. The free choice is what is at stake here. The manipulation, the control and the domination are all behaviors that we should now be able to drop in order to ascend further. These old ways come about in everyday life multiple times and in multiple ways so focus your intention in this moment and this one task at the time in order to be able to steer your way as peacefully, kindly and gracefully as possible. Remember that all of us are having some sort of discomfort. No one is secured or saved from this.

Remind yourself that your intuition tells you/prioritizes what is necessary now. So if it means that you have to skip or leave something undone that is exactly right for you. Take time to that what is important. It might mean that you focus on your well-being (more sleep, exercise, tending your home environment etc.) or you focus on serving others by acting and starting new projects, doing simple small actions of love and kindness. The thing is that no act is too small no intention is too grand so drop your self judgment and  drop judgment to others. YOU ARE ENOUGH! Healing mentally, physically, spiritually is a grand task. You should always remember that. Those of us who have multiple “illnesses” healing to do are under such enormous amount of need of energy that those who are not under our skin cannot possibly have no idea how much is going on. Do not judge, do not think that someone is lacking motivation or is sluggish. You have no idea.

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Fire in my eyes

This was a post that I read today. It was one of those quote type of pictures and the person asked what are we most afraid of three following things. The idea was kind of absurd from the beginning because when you really read what it was all about the person had a perception of unconditional love that was not obviously anything of sort. First I thought that they are entitled to their opinion and they will grow later to understand what the unconditional love is truly about so I felt better not to reply or say anything. Then I noticed this thought kept coming into my mind to bother me. I thought what is it? Why do I feel this way and why does it bother’s me? What is my perception?

So I clarified to myself how I see unconditional love. Then I asked myself is it possible that unconditional could mean different things in different relationships? Is there something that I should allow, change or perceive differently? I came to a conclusion that unconditional love in a romantic relationship is different to a brotherhood/sisterhood relationship. That sometimes we humans confuse that unconditional love is meaning having multiple partners as if sexual activity would be some (hippie) kind of answer.

Unconditional love truly means that you know what you want and set boundaries according to that and then respect the other persons choices. So other person might not see it as unconditional to have multiple sex partners. Some might even say that unconditional love truly respects one another so much that they would never harass, insult or persuade into sexual encounter in any ways. I see this as a problem with many cultures. Men don’t respect females integrity or rights to walk on a street or wherever they go like males do. Even when females enter a bar by themselves some men think that the only reason females go there is to search sexual contacts or some sort of boost for self-esteem (search for admiration etc.).

I so wish this bubble would burst now. Females who have balance and unconditional self-love to themselves don’t need admiration or any sexual implying to know that they are good enough. All humans, males and females should be allowed to have safe environment without fear of getting harassed or attacked or insulted sexually no matter where they go or what they wear.

It is breaking my heart to read the news where these certain nationalities emigrate or come to our country as refugees and then continue to live by their old cultural standards meaning the harassment to young girls  even rape (is acceptable if this girl happens to walk on her own on a street at night). Many will now say that no culture can be that way, that no religion allows this kind of insult or crime to take place without punishment, yet it happens everyday somewhere around the world and so many times the true victim gets punished as if they did something wrong as if that was their fault. The males should truly take a look at themselves. What if the girl raped or murdered even was your sister/sister-in-law/child? How could you ever accept such a cruelty? Do you think that the only punishment would be put them in prison or cut their body part off? The challenge and the only way we could win this is to do mental healing and start to realize how SICK some behaviors and cultural traditions are. Women don’t need protection but equal rights to go wherever men are allowed to go too. Women are in need of respect as spiritual beings and as physical beings. Men should evolve from hunters into MEN.

Time is now! We don’t need your protection. We need only respect and our civil right to be met. We are equal with you.

What is truly important as the time passes

This is a question we should ask ourselves more often because when we truly stop to think of this we might notice that things or events that seem so important are most likely not so important after a short while. I have asked this question now for 4 years quite frequently and have been able to let go of many things and events. The sadness, the lack mentality, the neediness disappears mostly from our everyday life. We might look “depressed” or reluctant to communicate, influence, take part to anything. That is not the case. Instead we are more aware of things that truly matter for us. We put everything under a magnifying glass so to speak.

We understand the value of our time here and even the things that we are not here to change, teach or guide no one. People or events that draw our intention are meant to happen so therefore they reveal or are obvious of what they mean to our growth or wellbeing. I suppose one could say that maturing and growing “old” is summarized in this. Wise man/woman knows when to speak and when to remain silent. The need to direct or teach lies within the event or moment. We don’t come to think next week or month but this moment and the interaction we are. The same it is with unconditional love. We enjoy the moment and maybe dream, but we are still ever so happy of this perfect moment and we know there are more same kind coming if not with that person or group then somewhere else with some other marvelous people.

What are your needs and wants for today? Are they self-serving or are they soul search and unconditional? Do you need time for your body to heal/soul to heal/mind to heal or are your needs met in a group gathering and sharing? Do you seek and need to see and feel beauty or do you need to dim a little bit from that overwhelming high vibe energy? Do you need more and what is it truly you need more? Do you then find explanations and reasons to start?

A little break from mundane life brings this into table once again. You are more focused and more willing to push it trough. Maybe it was just a coffee break with one article or maybe an event that took you to fancy party or concert. That is there to show you that you can push it further. Once you feel comfortable you see the bigger picture. It might look scary how determined we have become, how we have become the ones that enjoy our power to accomplish our hurdles. We understand that we are individuals taking our own life into our own hands. We become captains and commanders with clear voice, not with need to suppress others in a patriarchal way but only to know we have a right to choose that which serves us, that which brings us joy. So we stop taking part in parties, events and accepting things we don’t want in our life. We simply let go and arrange our inner world and outer space in a manner that suits us better.

It is kind of funny even what you are willing to let go, when you focus on the importance. Material world comes less important, your fame and fortune plays almost no part in your life, your own age come non relevant (I have forgotten my age almost completely). You don’t expect gifts from no one. All of this is simple but yet so difficult while we live in this matrix. Maybe it is just that we finally realize that in order to be important you need to let go of want or need to be important or in order to become famous you need to give up on want/need to be famous or in order to be wealthy you need to give up on need to be one etc. As circle closes we come to a point of knowing that being is what we seek. Peacefulness of knowing that your soul already told you what you are. Did you listen to it? Did you took the steps it guided you to do or was it your mind that said no I want this and that?

I wish you all a good and soulful day of knowing what you are! Let the inner force shine on you!

 

God against Satan

A discussion with my higher self was visualized with images of God and Satan. They had a talk. The God was compassionate and all forgiving and loving. The Satan remorse and was lower in this picture. The scenery was in the space so there was not much light around. The talks were constructive and God was “teaching” the Satan. The S thought that no one could ever forgive him and he had to hide, lie make up stories and so he could never show his true identity or face. So God did his/hers best and tried to explain that Satan had got stuck to this earth reality and ego. The illusion was looping inside and outside of him/her. So God said that it would be time to show S that he is not separate from him/her. Satan has just chose to see one side of himself/herself, that in reality they both had these both qualities within them. It was just so that God and Satan chose to act differently. Then God reminded Satan that he/she could balance himself/herself. That by merging these both qualities and accepting and allowing the authenticity to be present even Satan could rise up once again. They could then choose how to act consciously what they would want to experience by choosing how they respond, reply and act to each event or situation. Satan knew all of this for he was not dump but he was just in a state of denial. So God decided to give him some clarity in a form of energy, for he/she knew this was the most profound way to tell Satan what it was all about. The vision ends to yin-yang symbol in black and white.

My interpretation of this was that we, so many of us, are in denial or unconscious about the things we think or say to each other, that we even create storms within and keep hurricane energies alive (living in fear, or denial). The negative and positive magnets live within us and if those magnets are imbalanced they will keep creating a lot of stuff we then tell everyone that we didn’t want. It is good to know and make affirmation of things that you want, but if you have no acceptance of your full authentic self, then your manifestation compass will most likely swirl around and create all sorts of things. So it would be more than important to start to balance the compass by balancing the negativity /positivity aspects within yourself.

What is the negative side of you, that you don’t allow yourself or others to see? Think about them for a minute. They are most likely some childhood programming or habits that are unhealthy for your body/mind/soul. There might be many of them and you think that this is a big task. So take one thing, one habit, the most “severe” one and start with that. For me it was deleting some things, and making new daily plan with more structured habits. I know things will not be easy, but with determination, I tell myself that I have already succeeded. My happiness started to rice immediately. I dropped the unnecessary  stuff and people. My empowerment started from that moment on an I know it same with everyone else too.

The black and white will keep on fighting within us but we won’t let that black to win. We know who we are and what is our purpose for now till the new path arrives.

I ask you to find yourself and stop telling and selling stories to other people. Stop allowing that into your life which is not acceptable (as yourself or other person). Take the power back.

Much love and balance from this one. Let the balance and peace be with you!

Seeing beyond the limitation and leaving the comfort zone

To go beyond the comfort zone. Hmm. What is that for you? How do you justify to yourself what you do and how you do it? What is your feeling and motive behind your actions? Are you sure what you answer is what you  really think of the situation? We say that where you put your intention grows. So we try to go against our “will” and do what is often expected of us or we justify our actions because we are the earth angels and we are here to serve. Sounds good doesn’t it? Who do you serve then? What is the good that you do and is it REALLY good what you do?

We make these stories and visions in our heads all the time. They sure create the reality for us but do they create the reality we wish for someone else, let’s say for instance to an other person that we care about or even a community? How do we create what we create is more like the question that we should think hard, than what is the intention. Yes, it is the feeling behind every thought and action that is what is creating the reality for others and to us. Giving what we have is the key, like Neale Donald Walsh said. I believe in that now more than ever. If you can’t give your money, you give your time, compassion, time or something else. You put the energy into motion and when you do that you put other energies around you into motion as well. So if we would simplify this, it would be so that person gives freely (contributes) something and then creates the eternity flow of abundance to themselves. It is all about finding those that need what you have and then giving it to them without expecting anything in return.

Let’s say there are families that can’t afford to put their kids in the soccer school. They moan and see the lack of their material recourses. They close their eyes from a fact and possibilities that they could create by staying separate and not communicating, asking and seeking. Life is hard and busy, but this is a good example of the fact that we so often concentrate only to the negative side of the situation. If they opened their mouths and started talking they might notice they could arrange some sort hobby group or find the recourses that they need in other ways instead of waiting the finances to be fixed from one way. Life is what we see and if we limit the results and possibilities only to one, then we most likely are limiting the flow of abundance and the ways that “God” or the “Universe” is going to deliver things to us. Our higher self could help us to see the opportunities and recourses if we didn’t limit our options. (Understand now the phenomena do not limit yourself to words I am using. I am only describing things the way my belief system is telling me to.) Go beyond the limiting perspective whether you are Christian, atheist, new ager etc.

Go beyond your comfort zone. Now the zone and find new way to go over it. Whether that is creating new business, manifesting your needs or serving others. Stop looking the lack and limitations. Start with the feeling and knowing how it serves you and then expand it outwards. Find the joy and gratitude in creation. Most often the joy can actually mean serving and giving to the others. It makes one often so happy, that it creates an emotional overwhelming reaction (tears of joy and excitement). Once you step into this creation flow you will want to stay there. It is the service we came here to do.

Much love and joy into your day. I will be off to the playgrounds of higher realms now, with lots of fun. Hope we’ll meet in  there some day.

How do we perceive spirits that we don’t like?

Oh my Lord. This was scary. How will I deliver this message? I was pushing it away and telling it is personal message, but then I was listening this other message from an other person a channeled one and it underlined what the message is that I should share. Yet still I don’t know is this significant, but I am not to judge when things happen. So here goes.

Medusa is not the Illuminati. Medusa can be perceived as such but that is only one side of the story. Her/His identity is not relevant but more of the energy they are creating and sharing is what is relevant.

Medusa is multidimensional spirit. They have powers and shadow sides like all of us. They are someone who could be described as lion-like soul with an awareness of their divine rights and divine  respectability.

They want us to know that whatever they do and however they act is their way to set boundaries and roar if they feel that they are not met as equal.

I think they would like to inform us of the fact that even they might be appearing as hostile or aggressive from time to time they have this other side of them in them too just like us humans do too. They might be huge at size, so that we would be afraid if they show themselves. That is nothing to be afraid of, since they are not like humans, not so dense. They are from higher realms, but they try to be equals with those that are not hostile towards them. They would also remind that no kind of weaponry man made to say is able to delete them. They understand to keep distance and respect humans if told so. They have their grace and diplomacy too.

He: This is still feeling strange to write this like I got this. I just get the feeling they want to say that we make our beliefs and stories and then we gossip and distort stories. That is a human nature. Things said might not be the whole truth, but humans so often take them as truth not even considering there might be other side to this story too. I know things are improving day by day but especially with these things we should discern a lot more. These same kind of stories and gossips go around a lot in the social media.

I would advise you to disconnect from all kinds of human discussions that categorize other spirits. Specially at this time. Concentrate on you work and discuss only about the matters that are beneficial and off of the person. We all have roles and they vary in different places. Take that into consideration. Have compassion with everyone.

Love from this soul to you. Do good and the good will come to you. Do not discount yourself our of the compassion ring. Know when you need rejuvenate and charge. You are loved and appreciated.

There should not be shame upon Earth

Yes I do it and yes we all do it together, unknowingly and knowingly. It is so sad that we don’t realize that by doing so we degenerate our own potential to growth or our collective right to expand our abilities and potential. It is our history and our ancestral inheritance that makes us behave like that. Yet we recognize that we do nothing or worse we become martyrs and victims. We act like we could not change our situation, our potential, our circumstances. We are the ones, we are the change. It is our very own thoughts, our very own ideas that make the wheel to turn.

Then we see the huge task and decide to withdrawn, jump off for comfort, not realizing it is discomfort where the soil is best to growth. It is not fun and games, it is not pool party till the very end. It is lonely road to self discovery. Yes, we can walk aside with someone, but we must know it is our own responsibility to walk the road. This is all so very familiar to all of us, but yet we ignore it most of the time or till it becomes unbearable to bear the life that we live, to see the circumstances we have allowed to come into our life.

From my own experience and from the exchange of thoughts and ideas through social media ( I know I am not the one to write responses but to reflect those conversations within my loud mind) I have learned that all the shame we can bare within or reflect to others can make no change, but it is the inside learning and reflection that will make eventually the shame to disappear. So we have to turn the wheel on our own and this is hard to know, that you cannot give the task to no one else. Everyone has their own wheel to turn and if you are A FOOL to give your own wheel away, to trust someone so much, you are likely to get very disappointed in life. They will only create what is so called best for them, not necessarily best for you. To understand the path to self discovery is to know that we have to bare our own shame, our flaws and to make the change.

There will be time of sensing newness, which will feel like you are left with nothing in life to stand of or for. You are like a plank page on a note book that you just started. Rest in that. Feel that newness and start to smell all the fragrances around and take only what resonates with new you. Be sure as you walk to learn to say NO THANK YOU, for that is the most important phrase after thank you. Learn also to understand that you, me all of us are imperfect. We have made and we will make mistakes. ERROR EST HUMANE! Know this too that you are perfect and you are surrounded the people and circumstances that serve you best. So make mistakes, learn to laugh to your mistakes. Life goes on till your last breath. But for the collective sake do not shame yourself anymore. Do not see only flaws in yourself but see the whole you. See the creator and perfect you as well, the one that intuitively knows where to go and what they need for the next phase on their journey weather that be time off or dervish dance or hectic enthusiasm and passion to work with something or with someone. You are always guided and always presented the perfect solution weather you accept that or not.

The road is not straight, but curvy like that sexy lady. Yes I know how we are nowadays informed that lean lines and low fat percentage in the body is most desirable. That was the metaphoric expression only to make us consider that the most healthiest babies are born from mother that carry little bit for their child too. The body is intelligent, it knows how to survive and how to protect the unborn. Let us honor that nature. Mother Earth knows, the exact and right way to protect the life, by loving the things that cannot be seen. Mother nature also sends her love to all creation for she knows that is all to benefit her children to grow to their fullest potential.

I leave you now for his message has become the lengthiest of all of this blog history. With the message to give up on shame, whenever it lurks into your mind or onto your lips. We are loved and Divine. Everyone has a purpose and time on Earth, honor that and you will live in peace with yourself. LOTS OF LOVING HEALING FOR SHAMING ISSUES!

Thank you for coming to read this post! Bless you!

Powerful people

We get confused about the thing that we should not expect things. This is misleading us to think that we should live in the now moment and just flow. We should learn that by setting boundaries we give signs and expectations to other people. This is just as it should be. We should be strong enough to set boundaries to know what we tolerate.

There will always be people who will do whatever in their power to control and manipulate and if we allow this “mindless”flow within, we allow them to set boundaries and we start to live by their expectations and rules. This world is about power and if you don’t own your own power you will be leaded to what suits someone else. The very reason for you to become “victim” to moan about the injustice.

So in order to have power and healthy boundaries you need to step up and tell the rest of the world about your healthy expectations. It is within that we create the expectations not without or towards someone. Unhealthy expectations towards others are something we should avoid by all cost.

Know yourself and know what makes you happier. Give up on things that weight you down or make you feel less. No matter if it is someone close or a thing. Surrender to knowing that you are perfect and having experiences you need to grow unless you choose to stay stagnant, to settle for something that makes you feel like you are not enough or you should change. Pleasing is giving your power away.

It is natural, when we grow to lean on to peers and to find some set of rules or definitions to help us grow further but we should not cling on to them because by clinging onto we create only new kind of stagnant belief systems and paradigms  that we should avoid in the long run. We should only allow the flow and constant new settings and then let go of them when they no longer serve us. The mindful knowing that some belief or way to act doesn’t serve our growth anymore. This is to understand that moving on can create uncertainty and fear, still we should seek the unknown. We should understand that if we trust enough to our own power and our intuition we will get the teachings and teachers that serve our ascension. We should also understand that letting go or giving up means sometimes what we call losing. Loss is natural process of growth. It is not the loss and lack that we should concentrate but the coming of new that should excite so much that we would not cling onto lack and loss.

It is okay to grieve, that is a process too, but more like process that we allow. We should allow the tidal waves to come and do their work within.

So grow and have your healthy expectations and boundaries. This is how we find people that resonate with us. You push unhealthy relationships out of your space and let healthier new ones to come in. Come from a place of love to yourself! Lots of love from this little soul who writes these messages. Have a blessed day full of pride that you have the power.

Needy

Needy is often seen as very negative behavior. Sure children and elderly or disabled are allowed to be needy but how is it with others? There is also behavior that is opposite to neediness which is being too independent / too self sufficient. Strong people have learned this behavior mostly as a child due to some toxic situation or relationship in their family or at their community. They keep on repeating this behavior till they come to a healing situation or relationship.

How can we come to a healing? How can we learn to trust people close to us again? If there was one answer or a pill I am sure someone would have made a big money out of it already. Sadly there is no one solution or pill yet. We just have to start to work with ourselves. We have to start to trust our own abilities. We have to find courage to ask professional help when we seek answers. We must start self empowerment and after that to realize when it is safe to trust others.

We have to be needy to self love. We have to accept the darkness and the cries and solitude times. We have to start to speak to ourselves and to know what we want and what we need, to be happy and to be able to trust that we can keep on going.

There is surely neediness to human contact and for hermit like people this neediness can be overwhelming. To be able to tell people that you need their friendly opinion and a moment of their time not their full time presence or some form of relationship other than just a moment. That you value their opinion and their perspective on the matter just so that you are able to make up your own mind. I know people will often interpret opinions as manipulative, but if you are like analytical mind yourself then you appreciate and “need” other perspectives to make the most effective choice you can. But we have come so fearful over neediness, that we push away those that we could ask assistance.

So how to tell someone about your level of need? How to say I am not someone that you can always be around with for I need my hermit life. I do fine on my own, I just need one moment to share something. How to make someone understand that there is a level of need you need to find balance with them? There needs to be understanding about what is neediness overall. What is adult like need, that you can trust the partner over? What is healthy? How to be respectfully needy and not sending the message that you are being taken for granted? Neediness is much deeper in a relationship than just “I need you around for fun.” or “I need you to pay this and that.” Respectful neediness is a balance to have the courage to ask and to be heard and have both of your needs met as well as it is possible at the time.

There is no need for drama or silence (anger). You simply respect the others possibility to give their time/resources and you are respectfully willing to keep giving and getting in balance. So we could say that neediness is someway a healthy human way to co-work with each other. Respectful balance should be included of course.

So learn to mindfully observe your own level of neediness and be willing to grow in areas of responsibility where there is a clear indication of imbalance.

Wish you all flourishing week ahead. Keep you mind open and evaluate your need. Empower yourself if possible and share from your abundance. Stay positive and intuitive! Much love and angel love to you all!

Is persistance serving our higest good

Today I see that even in some respect persistence is what makes us succeed, it can be very, so very toxic behavior. We persist on wrong people, situation, habits and so forth without realizing that this is in fact the very thing we should release before we are ready to move on. This has been discussed many times and it depends every time on different things so there is no general guide line on how to proceed, but word of giving a thought to reflect how you should proceed is the only correct path to find the solution.

You mature with your actions, so there is no wrong doing or choices made. You simply feel the consequences of your persistence or letting go. Observation should be made of how you feel according your actions and choices. The key to guide you forward, not how someone else is responding or lack or their response. So therefore self awareness should tell you more than outside information you get from those around you. Yes they reflect you but also their inner world. You will, learn to hear your own intuition, your own voice, how some response resonates with you or your actions. Listen to that voice and take actions according to that. So if your inner voice guides you to leave or leave some comment unnoticed believe that is correct and truth to you. Your emotional compass is your guide.

When negative response arises, be discerning. Take a pause and weight your response and actions. Your persistent belief that someone will chance or the situation may change can be true, but it can also take so much time that waiting might be endless. So live your life and let go if you feel like it. People who belong to your growing curve will catch up if they are meant to. Do not waste time on waiting. You can only be persistent on your own growing not other people or situations. This is matter of maturing. The more your persist the more someone will recede from your life.

This kind of phenomena happens all around, but more so on Twin Flame relationships. It is part of growing and maturing I know, but persistence and insisting on or expectations can be just what we need to give up, not to hang on. We only add up to our own hurt and add difficulties on the relationship. There might be time that we could come around with someone, but there could also be no such time in this life. It is all a matter or how each individual is willing to grow and learn about their flaws. As long as someone is persistent to believe that they have reached their full potential or they are now in the correct paradigm or they have shifted and released karmic patterns they step away from ascension. They start to act reluctantly on their own growth and start to believe something is nailed down. This is not so, there is no stopping ever anymore. Growth and ascension, moving up and learning is the only now from this forward. Those who persist on stagnation will automatically stay behind. They are so free to choose so, but that should not stop someone else YOU. So take you discernment on matters of your own growth, do not let it stagnate.